Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Hope You Will Join This Board

After I did away with my Rockingham Forums Board, I figured that would be the end of messing with forums. But one of my participants over the years in the Forum Board sent me an email requesting that I join his board.

After viewing it I decided I would add his board to my website. Rev Thurston Hill from Kershaw, SC is the guy I am talking about. His board is called "The Preacher's Christian Board". Now Thurston doesn't care about adding politics, discussions on war or sports on his board....and that is fine with me. I know over the years when you discuss politics, you can get into a lot of heated arguments plus the fact that most of the time you will not change anyone's minds about their political beliefs. 

So, his board is for anyone that wants to have prayer requests, tell stories, poems, light-hearted entertainment. I think he has something here. After all, with all the junk going on in the world today, it is nice to see a board dedicated to the good in people.

I noticed that some from my former board have already joined with us on Thurston's board.

If you want a board that makes you feel good and don't have to worry about others posting vulgar or ugly items, this is the board for you.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

It's Sad

As I walk around our humble abode, it can make me sad. Just the little things I notice that my wife used to do or work with around the house. 

The kitchen - the pots and pans she used to use while cooking our meals, they now set idle. I am the one that uses the kitchen now and not too often at that. I am not a cook. So needless to say I usually go out and get us a meal or fix something easy. It is hard to reconcile the fact that my wife probably will never use those cooking utensils again. Oh, she tries to go to the kitchen and do what she used to do. But, most of the time, I am there with her as she attempts to do things she used to do in the kitchen. I have to be - her balance is not good and she will probably fall if I am not there to assist.

The bedroom - she used to get up and make up the bed and clean the room. But now she doesn't do that anymore - I do. It doesn't bother me, I do it out of love for my wife. I know if she could she would be doing her old routine - getting up, getting dressed and going out the door to work. But, that is not to be anymore.

The restrooms - I used to complain about how much time my wife would spend in the bathroom - but, it's different now. I spend the time in there with her as well.  It takes two now to get her dressed and up and going. Lately, she sleeps in to around 9 or 10 and then gets up and hits the couch for a little more rest.

It's like anything I guess - if you dwell on things too long, it can get you down. But it makes you yearn for "the way it used to be." 

I have read all about this disease and there are many problems it seems we are yet to encounter. But I just hope and pray that they never come. I encourage my wife that this stuff we see on the internet does not mean that she will go through all of these - because each person is different.

She has good days and bad days. A good day is when she can get dressed and get out in the afternoon for a drive with me and our dog. She likes that. The bad days are when she seems to stay on the couch all day because of her fatigue. 

I encourage everyone to be thankful for what they have and embrace the times you have with your loved ones. We never know what the future holds - but we all can have faith in the man above - because without him, where would we turn?

So, another little tidbit of our journey As Time Goes By.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

And Then, It Is Winter

Another good story forwarded to me by Bill Dennis. This story kind of sounds like the way I feel - some of it anyway. See if you have some of the same feelings.

You know, time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. And yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went.
I know that I lived them all...
And I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams... But, here it is..the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise... How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?

I remember well...seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like...  But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting gray...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me... but, I see the great change...  Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant... but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day!  And taking a nap is not a treat anymore...it's mandatory!  Cause if I don't on my own free will..I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over...its over....Yes , I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done ,,,,,things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done.  It's all in a lifetime....

So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly!  Don't put things off too long!!

Life goes by quickly.  So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for good today and
say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...
and hope that they
appreciate and love you
for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

This Is Truly A Masterpiece

Melvia Holt forwarded this to me. I think it says a lot. How about you?


So I said to him, "Barack, I know Abe Lincoln, and you ain't Abe Lincoln."
For those who study history --- you recall that despite Obama's continuous attempts to quote Lincoln as a Democrat --- President Lincoln was a Republican President!
 

You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift.
You cannot lift the wage earner up by pulling the wage payer down.  
You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatred.  
You cannot build character and courage by taking away people's initiative and independence.
You cannot help people permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves.


......
Abraham Lincoln

Best Poem In The World

Friend Bill Dennis passed this along. Hope you enjoy.

I was shocked, confused, bewildered
As I entered Heaven's door,
Not by the beauty of it all,
Nor the lights or its decor.

But it was the folks in Heaven
Who made me sputter and gasp--
The thieves, the liars, the sinners,
The alcoholics and the trash.

There stood the kid from seventh grade
Who swiped my lunch money twice.
Next to him was my old neighbor
Who never said anything nice.

Herb, who I always thought
Was rotting away in hell,
Was sitting pretty on cloud nine,
Looking incredibly well.

I nudged Jesus, 'What's the deal?
I would love to hear Your take.
How'd all these sinners get up here?
God must've made a mistake.

'And why is everyone so quiet,
So somber - give me a clue.'
'Hush, child,' He said, 'they're all in shock.
No one thought they'd be seeing you.'

It's About Jobs Stupid!

This piece was written by friend Ray Bryant. He had tried to post it here but had problems and asked if I could do it for him. 

If you want to comment, please do.



What this country needs are jobs so I have been thinking about this for a long time.  There are two main reasons that we don't have enough jobs for the American population.  First, automation of our work processes has put thousands of Americans out of work.  Some of you have seen the video of the new machines that lay railroad tracks using only a few humans and a couple of really cool machines.  This has happened throughout every industry.  When I worked, I was able to reduce the number of employees in our unit from 76 to just 17 in a three year period through the use of new work processes and computers.  Think of the farmer that can now tend hundreds of acres without the use of any outside labor.  We are so smart in America that we have figured out how to gets things done with very little human interaction.
 
The second thing that has killed jobs in the America is the availability of cheap labor in other parts of the world.  America can't put people back to work here as long as there are people in other countries that are willing to work for less pay than the Americans.
 
What can we do?  We have to put people back to work and we have to stop sending all our dollars overseas for goods and services that we need.  Here is my plan:
 
I would begin by taking advantage of the things we have here in America.  First I would put people to work here in the USA looking for oil and natural gas.  I would build more refineries and put Americans to work producing gas for our homes and automobiles.  There are new technologies today (fracturing and horizontal drilling) that makes it very competitive for the US to economically drill for oil here in America and despite what we have been told, there is an abundance of oil/gas here in the good old USA.  In addition to putting Americans to work, we would be able to stop sending cargo ships full of American dollars to other countries.  Think how many people we could put to work in America with the $85.00 per barrel that we produce here in America.  Also think of all the US dollars we could get from China for our oil.  China's need for oil is as big or bigger than America's need for oil.  If you don't think there is oil and gas in America, just ask folks in Louisiana, Alaska, Texas, Pennsylvania, and many many other states.  Don't believe me do some reading.
 
My next step would be to look at the next most expensive item that we import and see how we could produce it here in America even if we had to subsidize that production.  We could recoup some if not all of the subsidies through the collection of taxes from the workers.  When you put someone back to work, you no longer pay unemployment so the cost of that unemployment should also be considered when subsidizing jobs.
 
Another thing we could start doing is charging other countries a fair price for the food that we export.  We are currently selling food items to other countries at a discount and subsidizing the farmers for growing their crops.  Time to stop these stupid practices.  We have to get a fair price for all our exports and those rich middle eastern countries should be charged for our goods just like we have to pay for their oil.
 
I believe we should also enforce immigration laws and privatize public schools.  Both of these items are a drain on our tax system.
 
I think it's time that we put together some real plans to fix our economy and stop bowing to the wishes of the special interest groups.  The politicians need to understand that if they don't start fixing things they are out of office anyway so they should do what's right for the country and stop worrying about getting re-elected.
 
That's may opinion.  Anyone else have any ideas that will get America moving again?